SEX ACCORDING TO MAÏA
Fashion and sexuality have always had a paradoxical relationship. On glossy magazine pages, slender models strut in lingerie so seductive – sometimes right out onto the street, even in minus 10°C – that you want to lend them a sweater. Meanwhile, our own wardrobes are a study in 50 shades of gray – because we have work, because we prefer to go unnoticed and because sweatpants are just so comfortable. We bring that shapeless grayness home… even though our closets are full of erotic possibilities that we never wear or never use to their full potential − a real shame. So, I propose that we dress up again today.
A jewel case for precious flesh
Inspiration: One of the basic exercises in “sex-positive” groups, as well as in the BDSM world, is called adoration. As the name suggests, it is about worshipping a chosen person – more specifically, their genitals. In practical terms, this means taking your time, offering compliments, admiring, sniffing, caressing − and more if the mood strikes. The genitalia, often overlooked, is restored to its rightful place as the center of attention, deserving of the most lavish metaphors: crowned sex, sacred vessel, the emperor’s scepter. On your knees, commoners! His or Her Excellency is making an entrance.
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